Belonging is about more than fitting in. For many teens, it’s closely linked to feeling safe, understood and able to be themselves. The This Is My Place Teen Belonging Chat Cards are designed to support thoughtful, low-pressure conversations around belonging, identity and masking. The cards help young people explore how it feels to belong, why people sometimes hide parts of themselves, and what makes spaces feel safer and more inclusive.

The pack uses carefully worded, non-intrusive prompts that allow teens to take part in ways that feel comfortable. Questions are grouped into clear categories to support choice, emotional safety and appropriate pacing.

What’s included
A set of themed chat cards covering:

• Finding our place
• Noticing
• Real-life scenarios
• Thinking together
• Safety and choice
• Reflection
• Connections
• Identity
• Community
• Belonging in action
• Creative space
• A teen-appropriate title card that clearly explains expectations and reassures pupils that passing is always okay
• Adult guidance with practical tips for safe, supportive use

Why this resource works

• Designed specifically for teens, not adapted from younger resources
• Supports discussion without requiring personal disclosure
• Neuroaffirming and respectful of difference
• Suitable for whole class, small group or 1:1 work
• Links directly to the Children’s Mental Health Week theme “This Is My Place”
  Ideal for
• PSHE and tutor time
• ELSA and pastoral support
• Wellbeing groups
• Mental health and belonging-focused sessions
  This resource helps young people understand that masking is often a response to not feeling secure in belonging, and that true belonging grows when people feel accepted as they are.