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One marshmallow now, or two if you wait? In this lesson, children explore the famous marshmallow experiment and discover that waiting is a skill they can learn, not something you either have or don’t. They practise five Wait-Wise tricks and decide when waiting is wise and when to act now.

Who it’s for: ages 7–11 (UK Years 3–6, US Grades 2–5). It works in a classroom, a small group, a counselling session or at home. No SEL experience needed.

What’s inside (28 pages, A4 and US Letter):

Start Here (1 page)
Teacher Plan (8 pages): a one-page Quick Card, word-for-word SAY THIS scripts, questions with answers, and a worksheet walk-through explaining why each answer is right
Student Worksheet (8 pages): The Story of the Marshmallows, Story Check, Wait-Wise Tricks, Now or Wait?, My Waiting Plan, and Invent a Waiting Game, plus Support and Stretch pages
Class Activity (4 pages): The Waiting Game, with trick cards, treasure tokens, a spotter sheet and exit tickets
Answers & Guidance (3 pages)
Home Practice (2 pages) and a Parent Guide (2 pages)

The five Wait-Wise tricks: Look away, Keep busy, Talk to yourself, Think ahead and Make a plan.

Honest research, clearly explained: the original studies found that children who distracted themselves could wait much longer, which is the heart of this lesson. The Teacher Plan also explains what newer studies found, so you never overclaim that waiting decides a child’s future.

Teacher support: timed stages, a STOP POINT to split the lesson across two sessions, answers for everything, and a real, referenced “Did you know?” note.

Care and inclusion: the Waiting Game uses printed tokens, not food. Sharing is optional, and care and safeguarding notes are included.

Format: PDF in A4 and US Letter, prints well in colour or black and white, UK spelling.

This is Lesson 4 of Calm & In Control, a six-lesson unit on emotional regulation and self-control built around the Pause Button. The other lessons, and a full-unit bundle, are being added to the Letters To My Children store.